Cash Machine again

Why cant my children show me some gratitude occasionally all I am to my daughter is a baby sitter and a cash machine. Yet again today she has rung up for me to lend her money again only for a couple of days as she has put the money in my pay pal account but I cannot access that for three days. Wouldn't mind but she is so unappreciative. The only time I here from her these days is if she wants something. I have tried so hard to get close to her but dont think its going to happen she is to much like her father only room for one person in her life and thats her